Sex is an act, but Love is a spiritual gift:

                  Having sex with someone is easy but being in love with someone is hard. Wanting to have sex with someone you like is definitely a call of nature but doesn't mean that you love them. Someone could love a person wholeheartedly even if they won't have sex with that person . Sex is always about emotions. Good sex is about free emotions whereas bad sex is about blocked emotions. 

Sex satisfies a person physically but love gives happiness. 

• No matter how dark your day is, if your partner is there to lights up your heart.

•  Love has no time limit and boundaries. Even though you have not spent perpetuity in your partner's arms, you can hold them in your heart forever . 

"Nobody dies from lack of sex, It's lack of love we die from. "

" Sex has a broader meaning ,special meaning is shown through love. "

"Sex gives relaxation; Love grooms the personality. "

               The taste and pleasure of sex cannot be called later, while love can be recalled anytime even in thoughts if the loved one cannot be physically present. 

                  Anyone who is observant, who discovers the person they have always dreamed of, knows that sexual energy comes into play before sex even takes place. The greatest pleasure isn’t sex, but the passion with which it is practiced. When the passion is intense, then sex joins in to complete the dance, but it is never the principal aim. You can love sex, but if you don’t truly love the person you’re going to bed with, you’ve got nothing. Love is an indescribable feeling, that is not easy to put into words. But, you know when you feel it, and you know when you don’t. Sex and love can go together, but they are also two very different things.

what exactly is the difference between making love and having sex?

PRIMARY TARGET IS DIFFERENT

When you're having sex, your primary motivation may be to get off and have an orgasm.

When making love, climaxing is important ; the primary motivation is to connect on an emotional level with your partner. 

THE COMMUNICATION IS DIFFERENT

When you're having sex, you might choose to engage in some dirty talk.  The communication during sex can pertain to who is about to have an orgasm, when, and how hard. When you're making love, though, this can change. It's not that dirty talk isn't possible when making love, but you may choose to incorporate more loving, emotional words. Making love can give couples the ability to be very open with each other, as well as the perfect space for talking about how much they love each other.

As a teenager my only reference to sex was porn, that’s how I learned how to have sex.

As years went on, I now have a very clear understanding of how sex and making love are very different acts.

Sex is bio-mechanical and instinctive, we all know how to do it. Love making is slow, sensual, not goal oriented which allows us to experience the metaphysical being of oneness, this type of love making is truly an art in itself.

Sex can be a physical thrill for a night or a few encounters, but lovemaking can be an ecstatic adventure of a lifetime . 

Sex is a simple physical act, so simple that even animals do it. But lovemaking is a complex expression of LOVE. It’s a desire to communicate the love you have for the other person non-verbally.

The heights of sex, generally focuses on stimulation and nervous system response. This type of sex is commonly expressed by only a physical experience and is measured by the intensity and quantity of stimulation.

The depths of sex encourages both partners to make use of their minds, bodies, and souls to access each other’s heart.

Lovemaking is about your lover’s mind, body and soul, the whole person, not just her body.

It’s very easy and ordinary to just have sex, but to know how to connect with a loved one on a deeper level, and win over heart, mind and soul takes a little bit of commitment. 

THE EFFECT OF SEX ON BODY

Orgasms  release a slew of neurochemicals into the body that make us feel calm, happy, and procure a sense of intimacy,

with the person we just slept with. When you come, the brain floods your system with oxytocin -- the "love hormone" that tricks the body into equating sexual passion with love.

When you have emotion-driven sex with someone you actually care about, the endorphins coursing through your body can alter the way you feel about that person, bringing you together in a more profound way. It's not a manufactured connection; it's the real deal.

"Making love is an art, formed by two people with deep feelings and emotions for one another," says Ana Weber, relationship expert and author of Passion Spirit Purpose. "It's a giving behavior with commitment and care." And when it happens between two people in love, it plays a major role in pair-bonding and forming healthy, strong relationships.

Sex and love can go together, but they are also two very different things.The best and the worst thing about love is that it cannot be expressed in words.

When you truly love someone, it may be hard to express those emotions through words. In fact, real love may make you feel weak in the knees and unable to speak. 

Thank you 

Shiva M